Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "A common question polyamorists get is how they manage to have multiple partners. As a relationship anarchist who doesn’t privilege romance over friendships, my response is always, “But don’t you have multiple friends you love? How do you manage that?” Our different backgrounds give us various tools for managing multiple partners. For example, those from big extended families might be better equipped for polyamory. What in your upbringing and unique psychology giv