"If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me"—W. H. Auden Romantic love naturally craves reciprocity; yet not all forms of reciprocity are healthy. Some can, in fact, be toxic.

If you can hear someone on the other side of a wall, then that someone can hear you as well. This is something to keep in mind when you’re snooping on your neighbour – but this straightforward ...